Mabon as we know it, is the Witches’ Thanksgiving.
This is a time when we come together to be grateful for the bounty we receive from
the land. It is also a time for celebrating the bounty we receive from our own
efforts and hard work related to family, career, community, and personal
improvements.
As we think of how we want to celebrate this holiday
we are often stumped when it comes to the details.
What do you serve?
How will you decorate?
How will you set up and decorate the altar?
These questions are always more intense when you
are entertaining guests or coven mates. You want things to be dazzling,
memorable, and well… perfect. You feel the need to create the right atmosphere
and appeal that will put everyone in a celebratory and cheerful mood.
I often find myself surfing the web finding dozens of
beautiful altar and tablescapes that entice me. I have a habit of wanting to go
over the top and make everything marvelous. What I really end up doing is stressing
myself out before I land one single good idea.
I think my anxiety and self-induced pressure is warranted,
the table/altar is the center piece of this celebration. The table is about
food, beverage, socializing, and relationships. The aesthetics make the
atmosphere. They set the mood, and make everyone feel comfortable and welcome. Yeah…
no here pressure right?
There is no way I am alone in all this. I am certain
there are plenty of other excited and anxiety filled pagans out there seeking
some clarity and direction. How on earth
do we WOW our guests while we keep the decorating simple and beautiful? The atmosphere
of your celebration will set the tone for your guests to follow, this is important
stuff.
In my practice, our Mabon table is an altar in addition
to a serving/buffet table. This is a tradition I have always loved because
it reminds us that the food and drink of which we partake is sacred. This
combination not only saves space but it also acts as a direct reminder of why
we do what we do as we are doing it.
Let me share with you how I overcome my tablescape
anxiety as I create a simple, beautiful and elegant altar.
1. I start by thinking about what elements I want to highlight
in my design. What traditions and traditional aspects of this holiday do I
need? For me it was color, food, candles, and representations of the God and
Goddess. Once you narrow them down you will make the process easier to handle.
2. I take to the web where I search for images that
might give me inspiration. Unfortunately, Mabon is a very specific niche and
there is not a whole lot out there depicting well done tablescapes or altars.
So I made my search broader, looking at similar decorations and tablescapes not
necessarily related to Mabon. This helped a great deal. As I browsed, I begin
organizing my ideas and needs. What colors do I want most? What items do I want
on the table? How much space do I have? How do I arrange
everything?
Whenever possible, make things easier on yourself.
Take this time to decide what design elements are absolutely necessary and what
is optional. An example of this in my design is a floral arrangement. I really wanted
a floral arrangement. I also wanted something big and full, but I knew that
space would be an issue. So I made this an optional item for my tablescape. You
will see how I modified my design to fit my needs but on a smaller scale.
3. I figure out the details. What items do I have and
what I do need to purchase or make. What shape table do I need/want, the color/type
of cloth, candles, etc. Try to be specific. Get a good idea in your head and
make a list if you need. Then gather all the items you want. This is a good
time to clean anything that might be dusty, remove any wax from candle holders,
etc.
4. SWEET! It’s time to set up. Here is another
opportunity to make things easier on yourself. Get someone to help you,
especially when you are hanging lights, and hauling items from the one place to
another. I set this table up in the back portion of my long backyard. That
means we had to walk a good distance from my back door to the location of the
table. To curb the issue of making too many trips, I put items in clear plastic
totes and on a large tray. Problem solved.
When setting up keep things flexible. I bring out my
main elements… my “Must Haves” and I start there. If there is room for more I
will add as space and aesthetics allow. I
start with my color theme using table cloths. If you are looking for a specific
color theme and have little space this is the best way to get what you want. I simply
took three basic and classic colors and layered them so they all show. Easy and
done!
5. Lastly I began adding other critical and/or desired
elements to my table. I arranged and rearranged until I felt the flow was comfortable
and the look was appealing.
Now! Take a step back and look at your beautiful
table! When you organize yourself and think ahead, you will find that the set
up was not as hard as it may seem.
Please let me know how you are doing out there. Feel free to comment and share this post.
It looks awesome!!! <3
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